"An accessible, transformative guide for couples seeking greater love, connection, and intimacy in our modern world"-- The Klemp's work as mindfulness and leadership experts often fell to the wayside when they came home in the evening, only to end up fighting about fairness in their marriage. They believed in a model where each partner contributed equally and fairness ruled, but, in reality, they were finding that balance near impossible to achieve. They developed the idea of the 80/80 marriage, a new model for balancing career, family, and love, one that pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success. Their book provides practical, powerful solutions to transform your relationship and open up space for greater love and connection. -- adapted from jacket Provided by publisher.

"A Penguin life book" -- title page verso.

Introduction -- Exploring the three models of marriage. 80/20 : where we were ; 50/50 : where we are now ; 80/80 : where we want to go next -- Cultivating a new mindset. Radical generosity : the 80/80 mindset ; Contribution : what you do ; Appreciation : what you see ; Revealing : what you say -- Building a new structure. Shared success : the 80/80 structure ; Roles : who does what? ; Priorities : what's your yes? ; Boundaries : what's your no? ; Power : who's in control ; Sex : orgasmic altruism -- Living the 80/80 marriage. Resistance : the reluctant partner ; Rituals : the 5 essential habits of the 80/80 marriage -- Epilogue.