"Writer Maddy Court answers letters from queer women and people of marginalized genders about dating, friendship, and love."-- Court answers anonymous queries from lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and people of marginalized genders. She tackles first loves, heartbreak, coming out, and queer friendship-- all answered with the warmth and honesty of the gay big sister you wish you had. The questions reflect real experiences that aren't often represented in the media, and the answers offer an important reminder that loving ourselves takes patience, effort, and the support of our friends and communities. -- adapted from front flap Provided by publisher.

Firsts & thirsts : crushes & first dates -- The webs we weave : relationships & dating -- The universe needs to apologize : heartbreak -- Support systems : friendships & queer community -- Letting yourself be known : coming out & families of origin -- There are no shortcuts : tough conversations.